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If Your Home Feels Heavy, It’s Worth Paying Attention

Posted on February 23, 2026 by Bettina Reid

Posted in Cloverdale Real Estate, Emotional Transitions, Women in Midlife

If Your Home Feels Heavy, It’s Worth Paying Attention

Heaviness is often subtle.

It’s not dramatic. It’s not urgent. It’s just… there.

For some women, it shows up as irritability.
For others, as exhaustion.

It’s similar to when nothing is wrong but something still feels heavy.

And sometimes that heaviness is connected to the house itself.

A home should absorb stress… not amplify it.

Paying attention doesn’t mean acting immediately. It means noticing.

That’s often where clarity begins.

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