Many women come to me feeling torn.
On one hand, staying put feels easier. Familiar. Safe.
On the other, something keeps nudging them forward.
This crossroads shows up a lot in midlife, especially here in Cloverdale where many families have lived in the same home for years.
The fear usually isn’t about the move itself.
It’s about the unknowns:
“What if I regret it?”
“What if I make the wrong choice?”
“What if now isn’t the right time?”
Here’s what I’ve learned.
Most women don’t stay because everything is great. They stay because deciding feels heavy.
The goal isn’t to rush. It’s to understand what staying actually costs…emotionally, physically, and financially, compared to moving forward with a plan.
When women take time to talk through both paths calmly, the answer becomes clearer. Not perfect. Just clearer.
And clarity makes everything feel lighter.