There’s a pattern I’ve noticed over the years.
Women in their 40s don’t wake up one day and decide to move. It builds slowly.
Life is full. Work, family, aging parents, changing bodies, shifting priorities. Somewhere in the middle of all that, the house starts to feel like one more thing to manage instead of a place to rest.
In Cloverdale, many women reach this stage while juggling young kids, teens, young adults, or all three. Others are entering perimenopause and noticing their tolerance for stress is different than it used to be.
The thought isn’t always “I need a new house.”
It’s more often:
“I’m tired.”
“This feels harder than it should.”
“I don’t want to feel stuck like this for another ten years.”
This stage of life brings clarity…even if it feels confusing at first.
The most important thing I remind women of is this:
You don’t need to decide anything yet.
A calm conversation can help sort out whether staying, upsizing, or downsizing makes sense. Often, the relief comes before the move ever does.